Just last week, my friends and I finally graduated from high school. We smiled, we laughed, and of course; cried. Finishing high school is a huge part of our lives, and it is strange to think that we are old enough to start moving out on our own and deciding what to do with our futures. The feeling of having to say goodbye to the "best years of our lives" is bittersweet, but from my point of view, it isn't really a true goodbye unless we make it one. Why? Because the "best years of our lives" are not defined by being enrolled in high school. The best years are defined by the memories we make, the times when we don't listen to our parents, the friendships we lose and create, the knowledge we gain, and who we strive to become. In other words, the best years are the years that define us the most.
Being a teenager is thinking I'm so in love, and getting our hearts broken; but bouncing back from the disappointments and being stronger than we were before. It's talking on the phone for hours with our best friends, being guilty when we're innocent, and standing out while striving to fit in. It's when we have a million questions that might not be answered. All the while, being a teenager is something that can't really be described except by those that are living it at the time. Everyone has their group of friends, their group of "enemies," but in the end, as teenagers we will always stand together.
Being a teenager is when we feel everything at once. When we're "in love," we're really in love. When we "hate" someone, we despise them. When we're "lonely," we're miserable. Teenage years are when we go with the flow, and laugh more than we cry. When we burst out of our comfort zones and dare to face the things that scare us. It's the best and worst years of our lives.
Most importantly, being a teenager isn't anything, it's everything. Not a big deal, but a huge deal. These are the years that shape us into who we are. It's the time of many of our BIGGEST moments of impact in our lives. So, cheers to the teenage years. Cherish them, love them, and take a risk, because this is the one chance, the one time we'll be young, free, and careless; as teenagers usually are.
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